“Who’s this cute, little f*ck?”

The first words out of David’s mouth to Gary were “who’s this cute, little f*ck?” It was a Monday night at The Barn, a local leather gay bar (at the time), now a gay/mixed nightclub.

It was Gary’s “weekend” as a junior flight attendant not being able to hold weekends off flying/working. Gary wasn’t expecting too much action, but he loved the music and loved to dance at The Barn. He also dabbled a bit in the leather scene at the time, and liked a little role-playing every once and awhile.

Gary had met a guy named Jerry, who he had tricked with a week before. David walked over, David thinking Jerry was Gary’s friend and not “trick”, and asked the now infamous question – “Who’s this cute, little f*ck?”

David had emerged from the back room where his visiting friend from the U.K. Anthony was getting interested in a guy named Lionel. David and Gary flirted in conversation for less than 10 minutes when David said – again rather bluntly – “so when are we going to stop talking about sex and go home and do it?” Rather bold don’t you think? However, David had recently ended a five-year monogamous relationship with his ex-partner Chris, and was now all about just having fun.

Gary had split up from his partner of two-years, Benoit, and also wasn’t looking for anything too permanent. Well, 14 years later – here we are. Who knew?

David went back to find his friend Anthony in the back room telling him he was leaving with a cute little f*ck. Anthony decided to leave as well and wanted to bring Lionel along. So, we all ended up back at David’s place.

David’s ex, Chris, was still living with David at the time and walked in while we were…fade to black…

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